Being a guy holds a lot of pressure, whether it be working your way towards becoming an independent and successful man to building a greater sexual stamina and pleasing your partner more. Men are almost always seen as the dominant ones in a relationship and the ones who know their ways well around intimate activities, and this stereotype is continuously being fed over time. However, there will be inevitable instances where we’ll be unsure of how to sustain the excitement and how to keep the romance alive, so here are a few things a sex advice columnist taught me that might be of use to you:
Get to Know Your Partner Sexually
One thing some people haven’t been taught before was to consider their partners’ pleasure other than theirs. In order to make it equally enjoyable, you and your partner should perceive sex as a two-way
activity where both ends give and receive. Pay attention to their needs and try to understand what pleasures them.
Having said that the activity is a two-way street, it won’t hurt to be vocal and tell each other what you want individually—may it be from hair-pulling and talking dirty to extending foreplay, communicate and openly tell each other what feels good and what doesn’t. Both know what your bodies’ recipe for pleasure is. This way, pleasure can be ensured to both parties.
Try Something New
Sticking to the same old routine can be boring, and soon enough unsatisfying. Although trying something new can be frightening when put in a sexual context, it is necessary to explore your sexual pleasures together as a couple. Try to visit adult shops and scan for pleasure products you know both of you can enjoy.
Being spontaneous and trying a new position, a different location, and a change of pace might also boost you and your partner’s arousal and sex drive. Explore and uncover both of your sexual kinks and fetishes. You can also get advice, such as what are a couple’s favorite strap ons and other more sites you can find on the web, to know what else there is you could try to jazz up intimate moments with your partner. Variety of sensation is and will always be crucial.
Foreplay is Necessary
Women don’t get aroused as fast as we, men, do. They need enough stimulation to get to the zone where they get sexually excited and are physically set for sex, and that’s where foreplay comes into the picture.
The key to experiencing great sex is good foreplay. Building up the sexual tension before you get into the real thing is necessary as it ensures erection for men and lubrication for women. It’s a way of making sure that both you and your partner are individually at your peaks of sexual excitement.
When it comes to wanting to experience great pleasure with your partner through physically intimacy, cooperation and understanding as a couple will be much needed to ensure that it’s a win-win situation.
Achieving pleasure together can’t be done with only one of you working on it. Put whatever you’ve read and learned on here into application and spice things up. Brace yourself for the difference.